Answering a Young Reader’s Question

12/22/2020

Dear [M],

You don’t know me but I know your mom.  I also met your big brother [C] a long time ago when he was about 5 and your mom was working in East Africa.  Your mom told me, by way of Facebook, that you asked a very important question after the election.  It was a very smart and very serious question about whether the police would stop killing Black people after Trump was kicked out of the President’s Office.   To me that was such a good question that I wanted to honor it with a gift of these calendars.  Let me explain the calendars and also answer your question as much as I can.

Every year for a long time now, no matter who is in the White House, the police in our whole country shoot about 1,000 people.  Each year, 1,000 people.  About 250 out of that 1,000 are Black people.  But only about 120 to 140 out of each 1,000 people in America are Black, so, if you do the math this means that the police shoot Black people about twice as much as white people. Sometimes the people shot have really committed a crime or might even be shooting at the police, but most of the time they are not.  This calendar tries to tell the stories of how or why the police kill people.  The stories are sad.  Every person on these calendars is a Black person killed by police. (I gave you a calendar for next year 2021, and one from this year 2020.)  Some people have stories and pictures each month, but there are so many that some people just have their names, dates, cities and a code to say in a tiny space something about what happened to them.  Your mom or your dad can help you with understanding the codes.  

Now, we don’t really know if changing presidents will stop this.  Because the problem is in the police departments and in the police officers’ training and in some police officers’ heads.  But there are things that Presidents can do to help change this awful pattern.  For example, when Barack Obama was president he stopped having the Army sell or give away its old war equipment to the police departments.  Because sometimes it was like the police were making war on the citizens with tanks and rockets and stuff!  A President also has some control over something called the Justice Department.  And the Justice Department has the power to tell police forces in a city where too too many people are being killed: “Hey, cut it out.  We are watching you.  You are doing wrong.  You need to train these police to stop hurting the Black and Brown people and to help the people who are mentally ill.”  And that supervision of the police is an important help to stopping police violence.  I’m pretty sure Joe Biden will appoint somebody good to the Justice Department and some police departments will get that supervision.  But the biggest way a President can help is by reminding ALL the people, not just police, that racism is wrong.  Unfortunately, President Trump said many times and in many ways that racism was ok with him.  So at least we won’t have that.  Biden will do a better job, I hope.  So far he has shown us that he will appoint many Black and Brown people to important positions with power. So I predict that things will get better.   

But more than Presidents or police departments, I think the biggest change is beginning in the people themselves.  I feel hope because when police do bad things, more and more people are getting out in the street marching and on their phones with social media and saying “BLACK LIVES MATTER, stop killing people.  Get people the help they need.  Stop giving all the money to the people who are already really rich.” Your mom and dad are some of those good people and I see that you are growing up to be the same kind of person.  I can tell from your important question. So thanks for asking it.  

Kwa heri, [M].  Uwe na kila heri ya mwaka mpya   (See? Like mom, I speak Swahili too!)

Praise

 

12/12/2020

“…I honor you and your perseverance, your commitment to, among other things, uncovering whiteness.”

C. Rosalind Bell, playwright

1/4/2020

“I truly applaud you, your team on what is an excellent and much-needed project. It is clear how much time, effort and dedication it has taken. Be blessed. Yes I would like to order 25 and sell them and donate the money to Talladega College. Excellent idea and thank you again for your hard work. I love it.”

 Barbara Carstarphen Bush
Talladega College Class of 1974

2020

“These calendars are a much needed eye-opener! Sadly, such killings have become so commonplace in our society that seeing them one-by-one can be so easily dismissed or overlooked. But seeing them en masse like this, shines a beacon of light on the horror, wide-spread injustice and critical need for action to save generations of our African American brothers and sisters and their families.”

Joann Loveless
Past Grand Basileus
Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc.

 

12/27/2017

“When I have writers block (now, but I'm coming out of it), I start cleaning, which is a good thing, since my office is one paper mess. Plowing through a pile, I found a Black Lives Matter 2017 calendar, distributed by some "woke" white folks out of Washington state and graciously shared with me when I was speaking at an event. They did prodigious research to chronicle Black history and some of the lives lost to police violence, or related action. The calendar opens up with Gynna McMillen, a 16 year old child who died on January 11, 2016 while held in a juvenile detention center in Kentucky. While the law requires children to be checked every 15 minutes, "Video evidence shows that a staffer watched her seizing and grasping for air, and saw her die but walked away." It took more than 10 hours to confirm her death -- 64 bed checks were missed. We are saddened, but not surprised. And this calendar is chock full of cases like this. GRATEFUL to Juli McGruder and John Leach who describe themselves as "older white adults who have been allies in the civil rights struggle since our teens”. John is a graduate of Talladega College, the oldest HBCU in Alabama. HBCUs rock! Woke white folks rock. If you want to know more about the calendar, write jmcgruder@pugetsound.edu.”

 Julianne Malveaux, Economic Policy Institute, Past President Bennett College

 

10/7/2019
My name is Beverly Boatley.  My 20-year old grandson Elijah Boatley was murdered by the Maricopa County Sheriffs Fate Task Force on Sept 13, 2019.  His murder is still under investigation.  I understand that you produce calendars for Black Lives Matter.  I would appreciate a copy of the 2019 version whether Elijah's pic is in it or not.  You do have my permission if you wish to include him.  I am starting a team up here in Michigan and would also like to understand how to access the calendars for fundraising.  TY in advance.  I appreciate your labor of love.

 Beverly Boatley,
Grandmother of Elijah Boatley (9/13/19)

1/8/2016

The Black Lives Matter Calendar was far beyond my expectations. I was speechless and could not put it down until I looked at the entire calendar. It is informative and eye-opening. I am going to present it to my church and other churches, schools, civic groups etc. beginning this Sunday. I know that all will benefit from it. May God continue to bless you.

 Don Walker
Pastor at Beulah Baptist Church
in Bessemer, Alabama.

1/13/16

I’m stunned by the calendar you gave me. I thought I was pretty much aware of the violence that has been perpetrated on Black Americans by police in recent years – but I have to say that this really opened my eyes. This calendar – and all the research that went into it and the information in it – deserves a huge audience – and media attention.

 Daphne R. Schneider

 

Critiques

Dear Readers of the BLM calendar,

We get a lot of positive feedback on the calendar.  But not all feedback is positive and we want to be transparent about that.

In mid-2021, I (Juli) received emails from two white women expressing their disapproval of the calendar; one described herself as upset on behalf of a Black friend.  They both were concerned that the calendar was traumatizing to Black readers and “normalized” Black death.  Here are excerpts of my response to them. 

 

About why we do this:

The purpose of the calendar is educational.  It has been used in college courses. It is also intended as a memorial and on two separate occasions we have been contacted by people whose family members have been killed by police but whose data are not in databases dedicated to police violence. They have sent us photos and ASKED us to include their loved ones. So, as you can see from the foregoing points, not all of Black humanity responds identically. 

About whether we are officially affiliated with Black Lives Matter:

While we are not officially affiliated with BLM we have had the blessing of meeting with Alicia Garza and Patrisse Cullors (two of the co-founders), giving them copies of the calendar and hearing their enthusiastic approvals.


About whether our intentions are to traumatize people with this “vile” calendar:

 I am very well aware of the potentially traumatizing nature of the calendar for Black people and others.  I do have Black friends and family members who read it then put it in a drawer because they cannot stand the daily reminder of using this document as a calendar.  Others choose to display it, use it and "say their names."

I can only say that we do not send these calendars out unsolicited, that a large portion of our orders are from Black sororities and fraternities, that three of my four Black colleagues in African American Studies order multiple calendars every year and distribute them to friends and family. I understand the reaction of people who do not want to see this.  It is hard. I get that and I make space for people to react and manage their pain and their mental health as they see fit. Our website provides a preview of the kind of narratives and images the calendar contains, so most people ordering are well aware of what they will see. If you have Black friends or acquaintances who have been offended or hurt by the calendar, it seems to me they might better take that up with the person who laid it on them without warning.  But I would also welcome email directly from them.  Yours, by the way, are the first complaints of this nature we have received in 7 years and our personal emails have appeared on every edition of the calendar except the first.


About desensitization to the spectacle of Black death:

I am well aware of the potential for desensitization and the potential for titillation with the spectacle of Black death. I have to monitor myself for desensitization as I do the research for the calendar because I have to watch a lot of horrific videos.  I feel it is my responsibility as a white person not to turn away from the reality of police extrajudicial murder, however.  Even as it sickens me.  I do not accept the email writer’s conjecture that white supremacists would enjoy the calendar because the critique of white supremacist policing is too explicit in the narratives.  And I think nothing I do with this calendar or without it contributes to the continued murder of Black people because most of the citizenry of this nation are already inured to Black pain.

About the photo in the 2021 calendar of young Robert Lusk in his casket:

I have never before, in the 7 years we've been doing this, used an image of a deceased person as deceased, but I had a tough decision to make for Robert Lusk, on September 10.  There was no other image of this young man available anywhere on line-- I searched extensively--but I thought his story was important to highlight. Perhaps this was the wrong decision.  But most people only hear of the "big cases."  George Floyd's and Breanna Taylor's names may be on all our lips, but who knew Robert Lusk's name? 

About allyship:

Lastly, I'd like to say, thanks for your input but I think we waste energy for the actual work when we get bogged down in critiques of each other’s allyship.  I am an accomplice in the fight against racism. I wish you both well.


About, instead of this focus on homicide, celebrating the joy and vibrancy of Black life:

We do that as well.  Often times in the history of this project the material on the days not marked by murder has focused on Black accomplishment, Black resistance or White culpability. For 2021, it seemed important to address the racial disparities in the incidence and treatment of COVID, however.  If anyone wants to see back issues of the calendar with other themes we've used, write again.